For some people, finding their true self may mean getting married, while for others it may not. It really depends on what is important to you and what you feel will help you to be your best self. If you feel that getting married will help you to find your true self, then there is no reason why you shouldn’t do it now. However, if you don’t feel that marriage is right for you, then there is no need to rush into it. Take your time to figure out what is truly important to you and what will help you to be your best self.